Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Changes-A new book-Life

It will soon be two years since my eternal companion returned home. There have been many changes in my life with his passing. I have learned much, grown from the experiences that have come my way, and continue to keep moving forward. I still miss him and my love for him is ever constant! I have a deeper understanding of why he had to go home when he did and I know he is very happy, which makes me happy for him. We have a new addition to our family. Justin and Ashley had their second little son, Sam, born on Aug.31, 2012. He is a cutie and big brother, Max, absolutely adores him! We also have two more little ones soon to arrive in the Reeder family. Jason and Kassy are due in December with a little daughter to add to their three sons, so we are all excited for them. Jeff and Tami are also due in March with their first baby. We
have yet to find out what gender they will be having, but we are equally happy for them! Our family continues to grow and our lives are made richer for the changes and growth we are encountering. I have finished writing another book, "Life after Loss" which tells my story of how I've dealt with my loss, the lessons I've learned, going through the different stages of grief, and advice I would give to someone going through a similar challenge. It has been very helpful for me to see the progress I have made since Ford died. It will be published soon and posted on my website, www.reederjourneyofhope.com, along with my first book, "Our Journey of Hope" which I wrote and self-published just before Ford died. I am happy with the end result of this book and hope it will be beneficial to those who read it. That is my main purpose in writing this book--to help others who are struggling in some way. I want them to know they are not alone and the feelings they are experiencing are very normal, especially those who are going through the loss of a loved one. I'm excited to share this book with others and hope they will share their feelings and thoughts about "Life after Loss" with me on my website. Life truly is a journey and it's all about the choices we make that mold us into the person we become. I'm learning that if I choose to follow my Savior, Jesus Christ, and do my best to emulate His example, I will be happy and have a more meaningful life. Yes, there will still be trials and struggles, that is also part of life, but with His help, I will be able to overcome them, be strengthened, learn from them, and be more fit for the kingdom of God, here and throughout eternity. I'm grateful for my experiences and the lessons I've learned and realize there is still much more to learn. Life is hard but the reward is sweet if we endure it well!